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Here’s what I wish you knew.6 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD8 min readRead MoreMental HealthParentingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.4 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus4 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you9 min readRead MoreAudionarrationsADHD + DIY projects: It’s okay if the end doesn’t look like I planned (Project Engineering Series, Part 3)ADHD housekeeping: half-assed is better than no-assedWomen, ADHD, and expectations of kin-keepingA quick rescue remedy for overwhelming ADHD emotionsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on youADHD’s hyperfocus spell: what it is and how to break itLessons on navigating the ADHD medication shortageCalm in a crisis, frazzled under the overhead lightReframing household tension when others’ ADHD negatively impacts usI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.What to say instead of “I feel like you don’t care the house is a mess.”Why our ADHD family opted out of in-person school (for now)For women with ADHD, social relationships bring up lots of hard questions6 things I do to help my ADHD time blindnessLoosen task paralysis with one small thingIs the coronavirus pandemic ADHDers’ time to shine?Have ADHD? Here’s why you need to compartmentalize big projects (Project Engineering Series, Part 1)Part of knowing my worth is remembering what I’ve accomplished“Let’s be chill.” Or, how to maximize stress on a one-night trip.How it really feels to be time-blind with ADHDHow to get places on time when you have ADHDStuck and overwhelmed? Look for the smallest possible win.Use a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.I understand basic cause and effect. 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