AboutBookBlogMerchInstagramPatreonRSS FeedMailFacebookReader FavoritesMarriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus4 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you9 min readRead MoreMental HealthParentingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.4 min readRead MoreBrain scienceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsTime ManagementHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD7 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD8 min readRead MoreAudio narrationsADHD makes 2020’s holiday expectations and boundaries even harderWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHDI’ve had to give stuff up to make room for ADHD. 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