AboutBookBlogMerchInstagramPatreonRSS FeedMailFacebookReader FavoritesMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD 8 min readRead More Women & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew. 6 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you 9 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus 4 min readRead More Mental HealthParentingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis. 4 min readRead More Audio narrationsPart of knowing my worth is remembering what I’ve accomplishedWomen, ADHD, and expectations of kin-keepingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.I’m a woman with ADHD. 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