AboutBookBlogMerchInstagramPatreonRSS FeedMailFacebookReader FavoritesMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you 9 min readRead More Women & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. 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Here’s why you need to compartmentalize big projects (Project Engineering Series, Part 1)How to remember the little stuff, when and where you need to remember itStuck and overwhelmed? Look for the smallest possible win.Lessons on navigating the ADHD medication shortageIt’s easy to fall behind. 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Here’s one thing I miss and one I really, really don’t.Loosen task paralysis with one small thingADHD makes 2020’s holiday expectations and boundaries even harderWomen, ADHD, and expectations of kin-keepingADHD + DIY projects: It’s okay if the end doesn’t look like I planned (Project Engineering Series, Part 3)Use a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.I’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.Did ADHD help our family prepare for COVID-19?How inductive discipline helps me parent with ADHDI understand basic cause and effect. My ADHD makes it look otherwise.Giving myself a break can help me stay on track—who knew?Is the coronavirus pandemic ADHDers’ time to shine?The Apple Watch: good for people with ADHD? 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