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Here’s what I wish you knew. 6 min readRead More Brain scienceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsTime ManagementHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD 7 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you 9 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD 8 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus 4 min readRead More Audio narrationsHow I keep perspective on failure with Adult ADHDIs the coronavirus pandemic ADHDers’ time to shine?ADHD makes 2020’s holiday expectations and boundaries even harderCalm in a crisis, frazzled under the overhead lightHow to remember the little stuff, when and where you need to remember itWhy our ADHD family opted out of in-person school (for now)Reframing household tension when others’ ADHD negatively impacts usHave ADHD? 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