AboutBookBlogMerchInstagramPatreonRSS FeedMailFacebookReader FavoritesMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD 8 min readRead More Mental HealthParentingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis. 4 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you 9 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus 4 min readRead More Women & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew. 6 min readRead More Audio narrationsHow academic ability masked my obvious ADHD as a kidIs the coronavirus pandemic ADHDers’ time to shine?I understand basic cause and effect. My ADHD makes it look otherwise.Stuck and overwhelmed? Look for the smallest possible win.ADHD makes 2020’s holiday expectations and boundaries even harderWomen, ADHD, and expectations of kin-keepingFor women with ADHD, social relationships bring up lots of hard questionsPart of knowing my worth is remembering what I’ve accomplishedIt’s easy to fall behind. Trying to buckle down and get caught up doesn’t help.How I manage my ADHD and maximize productivity in front of a screenWhat to say instead of “I feel like you don’t care the house is a mess.”Why our ADHD family opted out of in-person school (for now)How it really feels to be time-blind with ADHDADHD + DIY projects: It’s okay if the end doesn’t look like I planned (Project Engineering Series, Part 3)“Let’s be chill.” Or, how to maximize stress on a one-night trip.Did ADHD help our family prepare for COVID-19?Why difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHDBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on youHow inductive discipline helps me parent with ADHDA quick rescue remedy for overwhelming ADHD emotionsUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.Loosen task paralysis with one small thingI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.How to remember the little stuff, when and where you need to remember itADHD struggles happen on a spectrum of privilege, tooADHD housekeeping: half-assed is better than no-assedIs “time blindness” an ableist term?How to regain focus when you’re stuck on a big project (Project Engineering Series, Part 2)There’s more than one way to avoid tedious prep for a fun project 😉Have ADHD? Here’s why you need to compartmentalize big projects (Project Engineering Series, Part 1)Giving myself a break can help me stay on track—who knew?Why I won’t call my ADHD a gift (it’s about privilege)ADHD & money management: what I’ve learned from 3 years with YNABHow to get places on time when you have ADHDBusy but not productive: 5 productivity killers (and how to fix them)Reframing household tension when others’ ADHD negatively impacts us6 things I do to help my ADHD time blindnessADHD’s hyperfocus spell: what it is and how to break itHow I keep perspective on failure with Adult ADHDThe Apple Watch: good for people with ADHD? Or just another distraction?Time blindness, ADHD, and those days when parenting just sucksADHD, sensory sensitivities, & hot food in summertime“Too smart” for ADHD: a note from myself at 17I’ve had to give stuff up to make room for ADHD. Here’s one thing I miss and one I really, really don’t.Lessons on navigating the ADHD medication shortageCalm in a crisis, frazzled under the overhead light ADHD & Time PerceptionTask ManagementTime ManagementuncategorizedProduct highlight: David Seah’s productivity tools 3 min readWhat you need to know about ADHD, impulsivity, and self-harm 3 min readHow to get places on time when you have ADHD 6 min readThe power of right now 3 min read#ADHDwomenBook ReviewsWomen & ADHDBook Review: ADHD According to Zoë3 min readADHD & academicsWomen & ADHDADHD clues: My embarrassing 2nd grade papers2 min readHousehold MaintenanceSocial RelationshipsWomen & ADHDMy ADHD Home: A Visitors’ Guide6 min readSocial RelationshipsWomen & ADHDFor women with ADHD, social relationships bring up lots of hard questions10 min readWomen & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.6 min readADHD & RelationshipsMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsuncategorizedWhen you’re not yourself 4 min readHousehold MaintenanceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsuncategorizedDid ADHD help our family prepare for COVID-19? 7 min readMarriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus 4 min readMarriage & Partner RelationshipsParentingFirm and kind: A challenge for ADHD families. 4 min readMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you 9 min readHousehold MaintenanceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsTask ManagementThere’s more than one way to avoid tedious prep for a fun project 😉 5 min readRandom Picks from the ArchivesMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSewing, ADHD, empathy, and learning to switch gears 4 min readTime ManagementTime blindness & ADHD 4 min readFinancial ManagementMinimalismHow to stick to your list — even at Target 4 min readHousehold MaintenanceSocial RelationshipsWomen & ADHDMy ADHD Home: A Visitors’ Guide 6 min readBook ReviewsMarriage & Partner RelationshipsBook review: Is it You, Me, or Adult ADD? 4 min readParentingHow inductive discipline helps me parent with ADHD 10 min read