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Here’s what I wish you knew. 6 min readRead More Brain scienceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsTime ManagementHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD 7 min readRead More Mental HealthParentingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis. 4 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD 8 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus 4 min readRead More Audio narrationsWhy our ADHD family opted out of in-person school (for now)How I keep perspective on failure with Adult ADHDGiving myself a break can help me stay on track—who knew?Blame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on youLessons on navigating the ADHD medication shortageBusy but not productive: 5 productivity killers (and how to fix them)ADHD makes 2020’s holiday expectations and boundaries even harderADHD struggles happen on a spectrum of privilege, tooHow to remember the little stuff, when and where you need to remember itWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHDI’ve had to give stuff up to make room for ADHD. 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