AboutBookBlogMerchInstagramPatreonRSS FeedMailFacebookReader FavoritesMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you 9 min readRead More Women & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew. 6 min readRead More Brain scienceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsTime ManagementHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD 7 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus 4 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD 8 min readRead More Audio narrationsHow I keep perspective on failure with Adult ADHDWhy I won’t call my ADHD a gift (it’s about privilege)The Apple Watch: good for people with ADHD? Or just another distraction?How inductive discipline helps me parent with ADHDLessons on navigating the ADHD medication shortageGiving myself a break can help me stay on track—who knew?It’s easy to fall behind. Trying to buckle down and get caught up doesn’t help.I’ve had to give stuff up to make room for ADHD. Here’s one thing I miss and one I really, really don’t.Calm in a crisis, frazzled under the overhead lightADHD’s hyperfocus spell: what it is and how to break itHow to remember the little stuff, when and where you need to remember itHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD“Let’s be chill.” Or, how to maximize stress on a one-night trip.Why our ADHD family opted out of in-person school (for now)Reframing household tension when others’ ADHD negatively impacts usADHD makes 2020’s holiday expectations and boundaries even harderHow to get places on time when you have ADHDHow academic ability masked my obvious ADHD as a kid6 things I do to help my ADHD time blindnessHave ADHD? Here’s why you need to compartmentalize big projects (Project Engineering Series, Part 1)Blame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you“Too smart” for ADHD: a note from myself at 17How to regain focus when you’re stuck on a big project (Project Engineering Series, Part 2)How I manage my ADHD and maximize productivity in front of a screenADHD housekeeping: half-assed is better than no-assedA quick rescue remedy for overwhelming ADHD emotionsLoosen task paralysis with one small thingFor women with ADHD, social relationships bring up lots of hard questionsI understand basic cause and effect. My ADHD makes it look otherwise.Stuck and overwhelmed? Look for the smallest possible win.ADHD + DIY projects: It’s okay if the end doesn’t look like I planned (Project Engineering Series, Part 3)What to say instead of “I feel like you don’t care the house is a mess.”Part of knowing my worth is remembering what I’ve accomplishedADHD & money management: what I’ve learned from 3 years with YNABADHD struggles happen on a spectrum of privilege, tooADHD, sensory sensitivities, & hot food in summertimeThere’s more than one way to avoid tedious prep for a fun project 😉Did ADHD help our family prepare for COVID-19?Women, ADHD, and expectations of kin-keepingIs the coronavirus pandemic ADHDers’ time to shine?Busy but not productive: 5 productivity killers (and how to fix them)Why difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHDTime blindness, ADHD, and those days when parenting just sucksUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.Is “time blindness” an ableist term?I’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew. ADHD & Time PerceptionTime ManagementHow to get places on time when you have ADHD 6 min readHow to regain focus when you’re stuck on a big project (Project Engineering Series, Part 2) 7 min readWhat you need to know about ADHD, impulsivity, and self-harm 3 min readInternet of ADHD weekly roundup: September 11, 2020 6 min read#ADHDwomenADHD & academicsWomen & ADHDADHD then and now: notes from my teenage self3 min readEssaysSocial RelationshipsWomen & ADHDOn being “one of the guys,” and growing up as a girl with ADHD7 min readSocial RelationshipsWomen & ADHDWomen, ADHD, and expectations of kin-keeping5 min readWomen & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.6 min readWomen & ADHDADHD awareness helped me heal — and gave me my brother back5 min readADHD & RelationshipsMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD 8 min readBrain scienceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsTime ManagementHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD 7 min readBook ReviewsMarriage & Partner RelationshipsBook review: Is it You, Me, or Adult ADD? 4 min readMarriage & Partner RelationshipsWhy I don’t commiserate with friends about my ADHD partner 4 min readMarriage & Partner Relationships“You’re doing it again.” Developing a signal for problem ADHD behavior. 2 min readMarriage & Partner RelationshipsParentingWomen & ADHDIn the chaos of family & ADHD, make some time for yourself 8 min readRandom Picks from the ArchivesADHD & academicsWomen & ADHDADHD then and now: notes from my teenage self 3 min readEssaysMarriage & Partner RelationshipsMedication[Guest Post] How one day of ADHD meds gave me hope for my marriage 7 min readParentingThe secret to peaceful ADHD parenting: just shut up 4 min readMinimalismOrganizingLink roundup: unbroken chains & ADHD-friendly environments 2 min readParentingHow we’re using a token economy to help our kid with ADHD build good habits 9 min readHousehold MaintenanceTask ManagementLoosen task paralysis with one small thing 3 min read
![[Guest Post] How one day of ADHD meds gave me hope for my marriage](https://adhdhomestead.net/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/guest-post-vyvanse-768x427.jpg)
