AboutBookBlogMerchInstagramPatreonRSS FeedMailFacebookReader FavoritesMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD8 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you9 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus4 min readRead MoreWomen & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.6 min readRead MoreMental HealthParentingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.4 min readRead MoreAudio narrationsWhat to say instead of “I feel like you don’t care the house is a mess.”I’ve had to give stuff up to make room for ADHD. 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Here’s what I wish you knew.The Apple Watch: good for people with ADHD? Or just another distraction?Giving myself a break can help me stay on track—who knew?ADHD & Time PerceptionTime ManagementTime blindness & ADHD4 min readInternet of ADHD weekly roundup: September 18, 20203 min readDerailment, ADHD, & the Pit of Domestic Despair4 min readInternet of ADHD weekly roundup: September 11, 20206 min read#ADHDwomenSocial RelationshipsWomen & ADHDFor women with ADHD, social relationships bring up lots of hard questions10 min readEssaysSocial RelationshipsWomen & ADHDOn being “one of the guys,” and growing up as a girl with ADHD7 min readMedicationWomen & ADHDBlog Action Day: Inequality (and what it has to do with women & ADHD)5 min readTask ManagementWomen & ADHDManaging GTD contexts as a stay-at-home mom with ADHD5 min readADHD & SocietySocial RelationshipsWomen & ADHDI understand basic cause and effect. 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