AboutBookBlogMerchInstagramPatreonRSS FeedMailFacebookReader FavoritesWomen & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.6 min readRead MoreMental HealthParentingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.4 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus4 min readRead MoreBrain scienceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsTime ManagementHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD7 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD8 min readRead MoreAudio narrationsLessons on navigating the ADHD medication shortageIs “time blindness” an ableist term?It’s easy to fall behind. 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