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Here’s what I wish you knew.6 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus4 min readRead MoreBrain scienceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsTime ManagementHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD7 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD8 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you9 min readRead MoreAudionarrationsThere’s more than one way to avoid tedious prep for a fun project 😉Why difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHDLessons on navigating the ADHD medication shortageLoosen task paralysis with one small thingWhy our ADHD family opted out of in-person school (for now)ADHD’s hyperfocus spell: what it is and how to break itBusy but not productive: 5 productivity killers (and how to fix them)Giving myself a break can help me stay on track—who knew?Have ADHD? 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