AboutBookBlogMerchInstagramPatreonRSS FeedMailFacebookReader FavoritesMarriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus4 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD8 min readRead MoreWomen & ADHDI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.6 min readRead MoreBrain scienceMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsTime ManagementHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHD7 min readRead MoreMarriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you9 min readRead MoreAudionarrationsIt’s easy to fall behind. Trying to buckle down and get caught up doesn’t help.Stuck and overwhelmed? 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